Then there is the other group of thrifty folk who choose to be frugal or downsize or live lightly. For these people, frugality is... fun? OK, maybe not always but it is always a positive challenge. A game. There are fewer shades of self-pity involved in the scrimping and pinching. "How low can you go?" really does get fun at times for these people. These folks don't daydream about spending money "if they had it." They might be very wealthy or very poor, but rarely feel sorry for themselves. They are the Have's. They have everything they need, most of what they want. In the kingdom of tightwaddery, they are kings.
I suppose there was a turning point when we entered the latter group from the former but I'm not sure when it came to pass. I suppose we do owe the old place some credit for it, though. Along the way we saw our meager savings repeatedly eaten up by The Red House and we challenged ourselves to feed her growing appetite for disposable income while managing to keep a few dollars tucked away. As the years passed there was the Grocery Challenge and the Thrift Store Challenge and the Thermostat Challenge- that was a good one. How many degrees can we turn it down with the constant wearing of full suits of long underwear? On days like this:
only about 2.
We were gaining skills in living below our means. Developing habits that we knew we needed in order to raise a large brood of Little Blockbuilders in The Red Monster.
But as we went, something dreadful was happening below the surface. The relationship we had with her, even on the part of The Master, was changing.
We were falling out of love with The Red House.
What a great challenge for your family! I am in group 2. I linked here from DS.
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